Tuesday, December 18, 2018

"On an Anniversary"

anniversary: n. A day that is an exact number of years (to the day) since a given significant event.

My socks have holes, was my thought. I need some new ones. If I had been thinking I would have asked for them for Christmas.

The heels on my SmartWool socks have worn through, evidence of the use they are given. Having proverbial “cold feet,” I love my warm socks, putting them on as soon as I wake up and taking them off at bedtime, washing them in between.

It is December 18 today, and this particular pair has served as a constant reminder of that day a year ago.

Visiting my Idaho family for an early Christmas, the family had gone on a shopping trip in downtown Boise. Two carloads’ worth, we spread out as we trekked along, all ten of us, checking out the local stores. While not a shopper, I felt I was in heaven when I discovered a store that carried SmartWool socks. A previous gifted pair had been worn until they had no life left in them, and I was thrilled to find a store that sold them and made my purchase.

It was cold.  As I walked along, I stuck my hands in my coat pockets. The light at the crosswalk said I had nine seconds left in which to cross. Rushing to beat the signal, the lugged sole on my Ugg boots caught the top of a raised area, probably designed to give traction in icy, snowy conditions. The fall was with such force a daughter walking along behind me thought I had been shot.

Remembering milestone events--anniversaries, birthdays, dates of the passing of loved ones. —is not something I do well. I know the dates of my children’s births and those of my grandchildren, and that’s about it. I do remember this particular date, though, and I certainly won’t forget the experience.

One year: One broken jaw, five replacement crowns, an injured finger (note to self: Do not walk on uneven surfaces with your hands in your pockets), a fat lip and scuffed up knee, but not a single stitch.

There is point and purpose to everything. All things are at the hand of God. This is my belief, my conviction, and how I live my life.

There was a time in my life when I had a “la la la” fairy tale image of spiritual life. My perception was that not only was God even better than Santa Claus, He was a magical force that kept me safe and protected in a bubble.

As He began revealing Himself to me, I learned He doesn’t keep me from difficult situations or circumstances, but He does promise to walk through them with me.

As humans, we tend to categorize happenings in life as “good” or “bad.” My position is some things are harder than others, but that doesn't make them bad.

I remember lying in bed that first night after a visit to the emergency room—actually, I was sitting upright on a beanbag to alleviate pressure on the broken jaw—asking God what I had done wrong, why the “splat” had happened. He did not answer.

Time is a healer; it also brings with it perspective.

One year later, I can attest to God’s faithfulness. Every single step of the way, my Heavenly Father has been with me—from the very beginning.  What could have been a life-altering event was more of an inconvenience.  That I had such minor injuries given the force of impact is testimony of His hand upon me.

Christmas is a week away. I’m not sure what the menu plan is for Christmas dinner, but I guarantee it is going to be better than what I had a year ago. I can’t recall what it was exactly, but it was liquid, ingested through a very small straw.

My son-in-law has asked me to see if the oral surgeon could repeat the extreme banding procedure which stabilized the broken jaw. Making it quite impossible to talk, he says last year was the quietest Christmas the family has ever had.

God is good.                            

“Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I will fear no evil: for thou art with me.” Psalm 23:4






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